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Making Marriage Work | Dr. John Gottman

The Gottman Institute
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Here’s the science behind happy relationships! Dr. Gottman outlines the findings, tools and techniques that have helped thousands of couples from around the world build a “Sound Relationship House.” Visit for more info: https://info.gottman.com/relationship... Follow Us! Blog: https://gottman.com/blog Facebook:   / gottmaninstitute   Instagram:   / gottmaninstitute   Twitter:   / gottmaninst   Pinterest:   / gottmaninst   YouTube:    / thegottmaninstitute   ...more
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Relationship Masters vs. Disasters

3:28

What Makes Relationships Work?

4:35

8:1 Positive to Negative Ratio Couples Divorce

6:55

The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse

8:52

Criticism

9:32

Defensiveness

10:52

Disrespect and Contempt

12:01

Stonewalling

14:28

Love Maps

17:05

Positive Sentiment Override

24:00

Negative Sentiment Override

24:23

Repair the Conflict

26:11

Friendship is the Basis for Good Sex, Romance & Passion

28:08

Moving from Gridlock to Dialogue

33:15

Become a Dreamcatcher

35:44

Gentleness

36:39

Softened Start Up

36:45

Accepting Influence

38:03

Compromise

40:12

Calming Down

40:27

Shared Meaning

43:16
Making Marriage Work | Dr. John Gottman
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2018Jan 30
Here’s the science behind happy relationships! Dr. Gottman outlines the findings, tools and techniques that have helped thousands of couples from around the world build a “Sound Relationship House.” Visit for more info: https://info.gottman.com/relationship... Follow Us! Blog: https://gottman.com/blog Facebook:   / gottmaninstitute   Instagram:   / gottmaninstitute   Twitter:   / gottmaninst   Pinterest:   / gottmaninst   YouTube:    / thegottmaninstitute  

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The Gottman Institute

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